{"id":152340,"date":"2022-09-28T20:49:52","date_gmt":"2022-09-29T01:49:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/windycityparrot.com\/?p=130607"},"modified":"2022-09-28T20:49:52","modified_gmt":"2022-09-29T01:49:52","slug":"is-my-conures-behavior-because-she-was-traumatized-at-the-store","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dev.windycityparrot.com\/?p=152340","title":{"rendered":"Is My Conures Behavior Because She Was Traumatized at the Store?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18pt\">My birds love each other but one (the pineapple) will not come to me or anyone. She takes food from me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18pt\"> I think she was likely traumatized at the store since she is the same age as my first bird who is easygoing most of the time but was there much longer. I\u2019m hoping time and patience will change it someday.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><!--more--><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18pt\"> After all, we have years together!!\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18pt\">Dear Billy<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18pt\">Yes, the bird will accept food and treats, and even perhaps let you pick it up if out of sight of the other bird. But given a choice, it will be bye-bye to you and will prefer to spend time with your other GCC.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18pt\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"130608\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/dev.windycityparrot.com\/?attachment_id=130608\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dev.windycityparrot.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/featherbrite-full-day-all-night-bird-cage-lights-sandstone-capital-shade-3.jpg?fit=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"600,600\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-title=\"featherbrite-full-day-all-night-bird-cage-lights-sandstone-capital-shade\" data-image-description=\"&lt;p&gt;featherbrite-full-day-all-night-bird-cage-lights-sandstone-capital-shade-3&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;featherbrite-full-day-all-night-bird-cage-lights-sandstone-capital-shade-3&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dev.windycityparrot.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/featherbrite-full-day-all-night-bird-cage-lights-sandstone-capital-shade-3.jpg?fit=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1\" title=\"2-cages-playstand-scaled-e1664407829838\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-130608 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dev.windycityparrot.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2-cages-playstand-scaled-e1664407829838.jpg?resize=800%2C1067&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"pvc bird play stand with covered birdcage on either side\" width=\"800\" height=\"1067\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18pt\">Was the newest Green Cheek Conure an addition to your flock that already had the first one with you?<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18pt\">Most likely the second bird is preferring to bond with your other green cheek (GCC) over you.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18pt\">After all, birds of a feather flock together and you have no feathers.<\/span><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18pt\">Given a choice, birds will 99.9% prefer the company of another bird to a human.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18pt\">You may always play second fiddle to your first GCC.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18pt\">Catherine\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif\"><span style=\"font-size: 24px\">BTW:\u00a0<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18pt\">I am sorry if I was unclear.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18pt\">The first bird is the one you had first, and the second bird is the newcomer. The second bird will likely prefer the first bird over you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18pt\">Enjoy the time the second bird allows you, over time it should get better.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18pt\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"130609\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/dev.windycityparrot.com\/?attachment_id=130609\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dev.windycityparrot.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/featherbrite_full-day_all-night_light-9.jpg?fit=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"600,600\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-title=\"featherbrite_full-day_all-night_light\" data-image-description=\"&lt;p&gt;featherbrite_full-day_all-night_light-9&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;featherbrite_full-day_all-night_light-9&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dev.windycityparrot.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/featherbrite_full-day_all-night_light-9.jpg?fit=600%2C600&amp;ssl=1\" title=\"2-tall-bird-cages-scaled-e1664407945174\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-130609 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dev.windycityparrot.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2-tall-bird-cages-scaled-e1664407945174.jpg?resize=800%2C1067&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"2-tall-bird-cages-scaled-e1664407945174\" width=\"800\" height=\"1067\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18pt\">Hopefully, this will not deter you from keeping them in your household. Having a buddy for your bird gives you more flexibility regarding taking a day trip or more away. Your birds will be less bothered by your not being there daily if it has a friend around.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18pt\">Catherine<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;font-size: 18pt;font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif\">Thank you!!\u00a0 That\u2019s what I thought but my first bird is usually fine with me.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;font-size: 18pt;font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif\"> It\u2019s the new bird that won\u2019t step up.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;font-size: 18pt\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" decoding=\"async\" data-attachment-id=\"130610\" data-permalink=\"https:\/\/dev.windycityparrot.com\/?attachment_id=130610\" data-orig-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dev.windycityparrot.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/71AEFkElfqL.-AC-SL1500-.jpg?fit=1359%2C1200&amp;ssl=1\" data-orig-size=\"1359,1200\" data-comments-opened=\"1\" data-image-title=\"Bird bath exterior cage mount by lixit for small to medium birds\" data-image-description=\"&lt;p&gt;Bird bath exterior cage mount by lixit for small to medium birds&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-image-caption=\"&lt;p&gt;Bird bath exterior cage mount by lixit for small to medium birds&lt;\/p&gt;\n\" data-large-file=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dev.windycityparrot.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/71AEFkElfqL.-AC-SL1500-.jpg?fit=1024%2C904&amp;ssl=1\" title=\"2-bird-cages-playstand-scaled-e1664408019954\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-130610 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/dev.windycityparrot.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2-bird-cages-playstand-scaled-e1664408019954.jpg?resize=800%2C722&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"2 tall birds cages with a pvc playpen in the middle\" width=\"800\" height=\"722\" \/>\\<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;font-size: 18pt\"><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif\">But yes they are fast friends and that\u2019s good. If they are out of their cages and I leave the room (and only me) they fly to the floor and come to find me. So they don\u2019t hate me?<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;font-size: 18pt\"><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif\">The new one who will find a way to climb up rather than come to me. At least she does that!\u00a0<\/span> <\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My birds love each other but one (the pineapple) will not come to me or anyone. She takes food from me. I think she was likely traumatized at the store since she is the same age as my first bird who is easygoing most of the time but was there much longer. 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