{"id":853,"date":"2010-04-14T17:50:55","date_gmt":"2010-04-14T22:50:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/windycityparrot.com\/blog\/?p=853"},"modified":"2010-04-14T17:50:55","modified_gmt":"2010-04-14T22:50:55","slug":"bird-wont-let-touch","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dev.windycityparrot.com\/?p=853","title":{"rendered":"Your Bird Won&#8217;t Let You Touch It &#8211; What to Do?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">We love our birds. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">We love looking at our birds. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">But some of us have birds that are unapproachable. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">If we put our hand in the cage, the bird backs up.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\"><!--more--><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\"> He might not even try to bite you but doesn&#8217;t want to be approached.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">The bird basically shifts its body back when you try to approach it. It may just turn around and ignore you when you try to get it to come out of the cage.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<div>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">\u00a0First, it&#8217;s important to remember that although you might want to pet and cuddle your bird just might not want to be petted and stroked.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\"> Sometimes have to strike a balance between physical touch and nonphysical interaction which could be talking or whistling, sharing food or even just being in the same room.\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<div>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">To make headway with any bird you have to respect its wishes and not force your desires upon them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\"> If you&#8217;re lucky enough to have other birds sometimes having the shy bird watch other birds play among themselves or play with the toys could be helpful. Many of us only have one parrot.<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">It&#8217;s important you recognize your parrot&#8217;s daily routine.<\/span><\/div>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\"> Do they notice their shadows suddenly change position in the sky?<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">Does he start vocalizing at certain times of the day? <\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">Does he play with his toys and dance with them in the cage?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\"> This could be a sign that your bird wants to play but does know how to play with you.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/dev.windycityparrot.com\/product-category\/nutrition\/most-popular\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Food can be a common bond between the two of you.<\/a><\/span><\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">Something as simple as dropping a favored treat into a food dish every time you walk by the cage can be helpful, while at the same time singing words of praise or just &#8220;hello&#8221;<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">It&#8217;s best not to lurk over your bird like a predator but just to be in the same room not even making eye contact, at least for a while. Eye contact can then be a good start. Blinking can even be a form of communication with your bird. Blinking can lead to a game of peekaboo where now you are interacting with your bird but not touching your bird.<\/span><\/div>\n<blockquote>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">\u00a0Sometimes your bird may pretend to bite you or tug on your hair making you jump back or screech. <\/span><\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<div>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">Birds are very smart.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">This type of activity is so prevalent it has a name the &#8220;drama reward&#8221;.<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">Basically, the bird learns they can be rewarded without biting. <\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">You can use this to your advantage. <\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<blockquote>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">A parrot who has learned the drama reward game may allow you to touch your bird by rewarding the bird with the rewarding sound of &#8220;ouch&#8221;.<\/span><\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\"> In other words with your bird in its birdcage, you could walk over to it, make eye contact, and then slowly reach toward one of its toes pretending to touch it. Ready for touching the toe jump away and scream &#8220;ouch&#8221;. Guess what &#8211; you were just able to touch your bird with other negative reactions on their part.<\/span><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">You can also try on different parts of the bird, the tail the head, and so forth.<\/span><\/div>\n<div><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/div>\n<div>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">The key here is patience. Your bird is going to be on this planet for decades, and spending a few days or weeks learning how to interact with your bird can yield rewards that will last a lifetime.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif; font-size: 18pt;\">Written by The Windy City Parrot Team<\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We love our birds. 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